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The Drift
How relationships slowly become disconnected and finding your way back to each other
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189: Uncovering Your Protective Self, Staying in Integrity, and Why Labels Let You Off the Hook
Discover how your protective self hides behind labels and excuses — and how to build real self-trust and integrity instead.
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6:41
On My Phone, Not My Feed.
Field notes from July
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It's Too Late for You
Some rules we make for ourselves we'd never ask anyone else to follow
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188: Stop Speaking Your Truth: Why It Is Damaging Your Relationship (And What to Do Instead)
“Speak your truth” sounds like the most honest thing you can do.
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9:33
187: The Time Machine: Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (Part 5 of 5): The Nervous System Pattern Quietly Killing Connection
Subscribe to get the free guide: The 5 Relational Patterns That Are Quietly Killing Your Connection
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7:59
186: The Performance: Why Being Easy Is Slowly Starving Your Relationship (Part 4 of 5): The Nervous System Pattern Quietly Killing…
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10:51
growth over easy
growth over easy
The patterns underneath why we love, fight, and shut down—and how to actually change them. Where relationship theory meets what actually happens at 11pm during the fight about dishes.

growth over easy

The patterns underneath why we love, fight, and shut down—and how to actually change them. Where relationship theory meets what actually happens at 11pm during the fight about dishes.
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growth over easy

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