In this episode of Relearn Relationships, we explore the fear of rejection and how it impacts your relationships. Lilly dives into the roots of this fear, stemming from childhood experiences, and examines how it manifests as self-sabotaging behaviors like keeping others at arm's length or constantly seeking validation. You'll learn to distinguish between real and imagined fears, break the cycle of self-rejection, and open yourself up to love and connection.
Action Steps:
Reflect on whether your fears are real or imagined.
Begin a meditation practice to ground yourself in the present moment.
Consider booking a Walk and Talk session with Lilly for personalized support in addressing the root causes of your fear.
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Key Takeaways:
Fear of Rejection: Often includes fears of judgment, abandonment, and unworthiness.
Origins of Fear: These fears are typically rooted in childhood experiences and untreated emotional wounds.
Manifestation in Relationships: Behaviors like pushing others away, overthinking, or looking for signs of rejection create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Real vs. Imagined Fears:
Real fears are grounded in present evidence within the relationship.
Imagined fears stem from past experiences or anxiety about the future.
Steps to Overcome Fear:
Practice mindfulness and meditation to stay present.
Address and heal past wounds.
Use affirmations like, “I’m open to the possibility of love.”
Embrace Vulnerability: Authenticity is key to meaningful relationships. Let down your fear-driven walls to create genuine intimacy.
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