Have you ever walked into a room and immediately felt the energy?
Attended a funeral where the grief is palatable? Noticed your skin crawl while interacting with someone you didn’t trust? Felt more joyful after having a warm interaction with a dear friend?
The reason you FEEL a certain kind of way around different people is that emotion carries a vibrational frequency.
As humans, we feel a variety of emotions, when distilled down all of the words used to describe our feelings fit into one of two categories: Fear or Love.
Words carry emotion. Everything you speak to another human is, at the core, coming from a place of fear or love. This is why HOW you say something is vital to the success of your relationship. With each sentence you speak to your significant other you are either speaking life and watering your relationship or speaking destruction and dehydrating it.
Words rooted in fear are repelled.
Words rooted in love are received.
You can have extremely uncomfortable conversations about difficult topics and still speak from a place of love.
Think about a time you’ve shared a frustration or insecurity with your partner, what was your energy like? How was it received?
When you share a need/desire with your partner that’s rooted in fear, it will come across as nagging, needy, and/or controlling.
You can share the same need/desire rooted in love and it comes across as a request. Your partner is far less likely to put their defenses up, and more likely to HEAR what you are trying to covey.
The next time you need to bring something up to your partner ask yourself these three questions:
What am I afraid of?
What do I truly desire?
How can I lead with love in this conversation?
Remember like fear, love is always available. You just have to CHOOSE it.
**If you want to dive deeper into this topic I’m hosting a FREE Training on June 7th, 2023.
The Energetics of Communication
You will walk away with...
An understanding of vibrational frequency
How your emotions influence your communication style
The importance of conduct in conversation
The role polarity plays in relational conversation
How to raise your vibrational frequency
BONUS how to use the Feedback Loop
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Live bold & bright,
Lilly